becoming 'atas'

OBIL extended this invite to hubby last nite and in turn hubby asked me (today) if I wanna go with him tomorrow after work via msn.

My response? "Go with OBIL? On his invitation? In his car? With possibly his GF? NO, tks!" and in return I heard saw a "You are so 小气(petty)" blinking at the lower end of my soon-to-be-replaced-IBM-screen.

Well, do I care? NOPE!　I'm not the least bothered by what hubby said. All I know is that I do not want to be in his favor in any possible kind. Well, these just apply to me, coz hubby is OBIL's brother, so I'm not stopping hubby from gng if he wants to. He of course should spend some time with his silblings, it's only me, myself that is super duper keen to NOT be in the same room with OBIL.

Put it this way, the less we see each other, the less conflicts we will have, the less misunderstandings we will have, the less pissed off I will be at him.