Last Saturday evening, after we came home from mass and dinner at Thomson, Pizza Hut, after bathing and things.. we settled down to watch TV.
I was in a rather good mood, after all, I had manage to read the announcement for GRAINS in church earlier rather well I think, had a good dinner and all things were completed for the weekend, can wake up late on Sunday and things. I cannot even remember what irk me so much so that I did the most horrible thing I had ever done to Hubby.
There's this little blue chair that's left by the previous owner in our house, and hubby likes to use it when he just reach home to rest before bathing and also while eating at the coffee table. It has been the root of our tiffs and arguments for almost the past year. I have no problem with the chair in our house. But I have a problem with it when hubby leaves it all over the plc, where-ever he used it, the chair will be there. But the most hateful place of all, is between the coffee table and the comfy sofa. It seem to have grown roots there and it is permantely there, even though, there is a pre assigned place, near the dry bin that we placed right in front against the wall. And thanks to it's strategic position between the sofa and coffee table, I have no less than 2 cuts (deep enough to draw blood and to leave a 2cm scar on both of my legs!) not including those scratches that will tear the skin but heals within 2,3 days whenever I try to step out.
I don't know what came over me and in a fit of anger, I threw THAT little blue chair down the rubbish chute! Well, I din throw it immediately down, I flung it into the kitchen and when hubby din bother to pick it up, I decided to put an end to it and down it went into the chute!
I was sooooo pissed off with THAT chair and hubby! I cannot understand why, he cannot placed it back to where it belong.
In the 1st place, I have already made compromises with hubby. The first was I wanted to get it out before we shifted in, hubby says it's useful and should keep. So, I agreed and put it in the store room, when ever it's not in use.
Then hubby took it out and left it in the hall saying it's more convenient than going to the store room to take it when we need it. So fine for that too, but I left it beside/behind the dry bin.
And throughout the whole year, hubby just leave it lying around anywhere and everywhere!! Only after I do my share of nagging, he will pushed THAT chair into position, but only for a few short days.
So, I felt, I have done my share of compromise. I have compromised and compromised and even gave him chances after chances. So can you really say it's my fault that I threw the chair?!