Why must we always argue because of OBIL?
Don't you know that I am super sick of arguing with you over HIM?! Yes, I DISLIKE him! Period. Can't you STOP being such a soft person and say yes to EVERYTHING he asked or says?!
Why must you always either hide information from me? Lie to me? With regards to him, why cannot you tell me the truth and be 100% honest?
Just what arrangements you have with him that you CANNOT let me know?
Yes, I DISLIKE him, and at the moment now, I feel it would really be much much much better if you either be totally honest with me or you can go and stay with your beloved brother!
ARGHH!!!!
Wednesday, July 18
Sunday, July 15
Out with Hubby
Metro was having a 20% card member's sale yesterday and we went to jostle with the crowd too. In the end, we got something but it was for Channie and nothing for ourselves...
Since we took 162 down, we alighted near OG but we din manage to get anything. Instead, I bump into 1 of our many directors, Lee YK. His wife is quite pretty lei! hahahaha...
Passed by Robinsons and since the weather was so hot, we went in too, since I wanted to check out the cosmetics and then since there was still sale around, we went to take a look too... in the event that Hubby needs more shirts / pants or something to that effect.
And guess what?! I found THAT dress being sold at $49!!! Original was at $139 when I saw it last year, around Christmas!! It was then so expensive that I din want to buy it... But yesterday, $49!!! Some more, additional 10%!!! Woah!!!
I wanted the one in purple, but the only piece there was spoilt beyond repair, so I took the black piece... It's very light and when I wear it, makes me look slim! Goody! I have something to wear to the wedding of Hubby's friend in November already! But I still do wish I have the purple dress instead. =(
Finally made our way to Metro and got Channie these...
for her Bday bash next week. Pity, we are not able to go coz I have lessons at SIM and from SIM to her place at Punggol, really very far for us.
By this time, we are both tired out and went to search for some food... and shopping with Hubby is very tiring lei.... Just walking for 2 hours, we are both tired. Settled down in MOS for at least an hour before we made our next move to the Taka Food Feast. So many japanese and korean food!! And all looks so pretty! I almost wanted to get everything but then again, it's not possible la.. so in the end, we only tired the Hokkaido ice cream... hahaha. Rum & Rasin. NICE lor! But hor, expensive too. $3.80 for 1 scoop!!!
We both enjoyed it tremendously!
But too expensive to be eating it often la...
Then we went to the Mens' department and Hubby got himself another pair of shoes... Not bad looking and he says pretty comfortable.
Best it's only $69!
Also went to Fancl in Taka coz there was 10% off store wide and I got myself the under eye mask and sebum care pack.
Hope it does help me in my eye circles and oily T-zone... Just these 2 things hor and it's costing me almost $60!
Yah, no doubt, just got my pay, but if I continue like this, really no $$$... still got an Israel trip to save for and just last night, also sent my orders for F21 to my colleague...
Money... money... I need MORE money!
Since we took 162 down, we alighted near OG but we din manage to get anything. Instead, I bump into 1 of our many directors, Lee YK. His wife is quite pretty lei! hahahaha...
Passed by Robinsons and since the weather was so hot, we went in too, since I wanted to check out the cosmetics and then since there was still sale around, we went to take a look too... in the event that Hubby needs more shirts / pants or something to that effect.
And guess what?! I found THAT dress being sold at $49!!! Original was at $139 when I saw it last year, around Christmas!! It was then so expensive that I din want to buy it... But yesterday, $49!!! Some more, additional 10%!!! Woah!!!
I wanted the one in purple, but the only piece there was spoilt beyond repair, so I took the black piece... It's very light and when I wear it, makes me look slim! Goody! I have something to wear to the wedding of Hubby's friend in November already! But I still do wish I have the purple dress instead. =(Finally made our way to Metro and got Channie these...
for her Bday bash next week. Pity, we are not able to go coz I have lessons at SIM and from SIM to her place at Punggol, really very far for us.By this time, we are both tired out and went to search for some food... and shopping with Hubby is very tiring lei.... Just walking for 2 hours, we are both tired. Settled down in MOS for at least an hour before we made our next move to the Taka Food Feast. So many japanese and korean food!! And all looks so pretty! I almost wanted to get everything but then again, it's not possible la.. so in the end, we only tired the Hokkaido ice cream... hahaha. Rum & Rasin. NICE lor! But hor, expensive too. $3.80 for 1 scoop!!!
We both enjoyed it tremendously!
But too expensive to be eating it often la...
Then we went to the Mens' department and Hubby got himself another pair of shoes... Not bad looking and he says pretty comfortable.
Best it's only $69!
Also went to Fancl in Taka coz there was 10% off store wide and I got myself the under eye mask and sebum care pack.
Hope it does help me in my eye circles and oily T-zone... Just these 2 things hor and it's costing me almost $60!
Yah, no doubt, just got my pay, but if I continue like this, really no $$$... still got an Israel trip to save for and just last night, also sent my orders for F21 to my colleague...
Money... money... I need MORE money!
Monday, July 9
The 11 Forgiveness
Forgiving one another for the little hurts in marriage is a big part of building an eternal relationship.
Within a marriage, “little” things often have the greatest impact. And unforgiving attitudes about those little things often sow seeds of greater unhappiness.
Forgive me for not always being your friend, your husband and your partner.
Forgive me for the times when I am not someone you could talk to when you just needed someone to listen. I'm sorry I wasn't there to listen without criticizing or judging you or what you had to say.
Forgive me for the times I wasn't someone you could relax and laugh with. I remember that during our courtship we talked and laughed for hours. Sometimes it was on the phone or online chatting. Those were the times when we wanted to be with each other above all else. Sometimes we were very good friends.
Forgive me for not showing my appreciation.
Forgive me for the times I've taken your countless contribution--your gifts of time, effort, and concern for granted. I sometimes wonder how many times your service and acts of devotion have gone unnoticed. I suppose there have even been times when I thought they were merely your "duty," part of your marital responsibilities. It's true that there are obligations that go with marriage, but it still might have helped if I had expressed my appreciation more often. You might have felt more that you wanted to do those things, rather that you had to do them. I apologize for the times you had hoped I would notice and were disappointed.
Forgive me for the times I have been selfish. I'm sorry for all the times I satisfied my needs in ways that interfered with the satisfaction of your needs. I apologize for needing to be right even when I knew I was wrong. How frustrated and discourage you must have felt when you tried to express your opinions, feelings and needs, and I didn't hear you. Even more important, forgive me for the times I believed I was superior--more intelligent, more courageous, or more sophisticated than you. When I put myself above you in my mind I disqualified your ideas and suggestions, and I acted as if you were not worthy of my love. I can now more fully understand that we are truly equals in the eyes of God, and that this is how we should see each other as well. Please forgive me for my pride and my self-interest at your expense.
Forgive me for not placing you as my number one priority in life. I can remember times when I allowed my parents, friends or even job to be more important to me than your happiness and welfare. My intentions were honorable, but the hurt you felt was nonetheless real. I know your image of yourself must have suffered when you saw everything else in my life coming first. I do want you to know, however, that there have been times when I did make you my top priority, times when I considered your feelings first when making a decision. I may not have always decided in your favor, but at least I considered your feelings, Being as sensitive as you are, you were probably quite aware of those times and of the place you held in my life. Please forgive me for the times your place was not first.
Forgive me for not being there when you needed me. I'm sorry for waiting until you told me to do something rather than seeing and doing what was needed on my own. Sometimes I even waited too long and you did it yourself.
Forgive me for the times you needed your load lightened and did nothing in your behalf. I was probably preoccupied, but that's no excuse for being inconsiderate. Maybe I saw you as being strong and capable, not really needing my help. But since none of us can be strong all the time, I would especially like to ask for you forgiveness for the times I was not there when you needed comfort, support, and understanding.
Forgive me for not accepting a less-than-perfect you. I'm not sure why I expected you to be perfect when I have been willing to accept imperfection in others. Our parents were not perfect, nor are our children will be perfect. I accepted their imperfection as a fact of life, yet I insisted on holding you up against an ideal or fantasy of what a spouse should be. I repeatedly placed on you the responsibility for solving my problems. I gave you the job of maintaining my happiness. Apparently, I was more involved with wanting you to be perfect than I was with helping you seek improvement in your own ways. Forgive me for not accepting you for who you are.
Forgive me for neglecting your hopes and dreams. I probably will never fully appreciate the sacrifices you made to marry me. I know that you have had some of your dreams since childhood; there were places you wanted to see, things you wanted to do, and goals you wanted to achieve. Granted, some of them have been fulfilled, but some dreams still caused you to pause and think a moment before you dismiss them with a sigh and a shrug. Forgive me for the times when I have not considered your hopes and dreams to be as important as my own.
Forgive me for the promises, implied or explicit, that I have broken. I'm sure that at the time I made those promises to you I fully believed that I could keep them. Some can still be kept, while the time for others had passed. When we first got married, I made a promise to both of us that you would never regret marrying me. Forgive me if I have given you one momentary of regret for having made that decision. I would like to renew that promise: I promise you tomorrows that will be filled with both joy and sadness, but never with regret for having married me.
Within a marriage, “little” things often have the greatest impact. And unforgiving attitudes about those little things often sow seeds of greater unhappiness.
Forgive me for not always being your friend, your husband and your partner.
Forgive me for the times when I am not someone you could talk to when you just needed someone to listen. I'm sorry I wasn't there to listen without criticizing or judging you or what you had to say.
Forgive me for the times I wasn't someone you could relax and laugh with. I remember that during our courtship we talked and laughed for hours. Sometimes it was on the phone or online chatting. Those were the times when we wanted to be with each other above all else. Sometimes we were very good friends.
Forgive me for not showing my appreciation.
Forgive me for the times I've taken your countless contribution--your gifts of time, effort, and concern for granted. I sometimes wonder how many times your service and acts of devotion have gone unnoticed. I suppose there have even been times when I thought they were merely your "duty," part of your marital responsibilities. It's true that there are obligations that go with marriage, but it still might have helped if I had expressed my appreciation more often. You might have felt more that you wanted to do those things, rather that you had to do them. I apologize for the times you had hoped I would notice and were disappointed.
Forgive me for the times I have been selfish. I'm sorry for all the times I satisfied my needs in ways that interfered with the satisfaction of your needs. I apologize for needing to be right even when I knew I was wrong. How frustrated and discourage you must have felt when you tried to express your opinions, feelings and needs, and I didn't hear you. Even more important, forgive me for the times I believed I was superior--more intelligent, more courageous, or more sophisticated than you. When I put myself above you in my mind I disqualified your ideas and suggestions, and I acted as if you were not worthy of my love. I can now more fully understand that we are truly equals in the eyes of God, and that this is how we should see each other as well. Please forgive me for my pride and my self-interest at your expense.
Forgive me for not placing you as my number one priority in life. I can remember times when I allowed my parents, friends or even job to be more important to me than your happiness and welfare. My intentions were honorable, but the hurt you felt was nonetheless real. I know your image of yourself must have suffered when you saw everything else in my life coming first. I do want you to know, however, that there have been times when I did make you my top priority, times when I considered your feelings first when making a decision. I may not have always decided in your favor, but at least I considered your feelings, Being as sensitive as you are, you were probably quite aware of those times and of the place you held in my life. Please forgive me for the times your place was not first.
Forgive me for not being there when you needed me. I'm sorry for waiting until you told me to do something rather than seeing and doing what was needed on my own. Sometimes I even waited too long and you did it yourself.
Forgive me for the times you needed your load lightened and did nothing in your behalf. I was probably preoccupied, but that's no excuse for being inconsiderate. Maybe I saw you as being strong and capable, not really needing my help. But since none of us can be strong all the time, I would especially like to ask for you forgiveness for the times I was not there when you needed comfort, support, and understanding.
Forgive me for not accepting a less-than-perfect you. I'm not sure why I expected you to be perfect when I have been willing to accept imperfection in others. Our parents were not perfect, nor are our children will be perfect. I accepted their imperfection as a fact of life, yet I insisted on holding you up against an ideal or fantasy of what a spouse should be. I repeatedly placed on you the responsibility for solving my problems. I gave you the job of maintaining my happiness. Apparently, I was more involved with wanting you to be perfect than I was with helping you seek improvement in your own ways. Forgive me for not accepting you for who you are.
Forgive me for neglecting your hopes and dreams. I probably will never fully appreciate the sacrifices you made to marry me. I know that you have had some of your dreams since childhood; there were places you wanted to see, things you wanted to do, and goals you wanted to achieve. Granted, some of them have been fulfilled, but some dreams still caused you to pause and think a moment before you dismiss them with a sigh and a shrug. Forgive me for the times when I have not considered your hopes and dreams to be as important as my own.
Forgive me for the promises, implied or explicit, that I have broken. I'm sure that at the time I made those promises to you I fully believed that I could keep them. Some can still be kept, while the time for others had passed. When we first got married, I made a promise to both of us that you would never regret marrying me. Forgive me if I have given you one momentary of regret for having made that decision. I would like to renew that promise: I promise you tomorrows that will be filled with both joy and sadness, but never with regret for having married me.
Mammoth Task!
I've completed the mammoth task of labelling each and every single post here so that it's easier to read and sort and find.
And damn!!! There's something wrong with the title bar, I just can't add in a title. Got to keep trying and trying!
And damn!!! There's something wrong with the title bar, I just can't add in a title. Got to keep trying and trying!
Sunday, July 8
Whatever~
"Whatever~'
This takes "whatever" to a brand NEW level!
Did you catch her eyes and hand movement?
Cute isn't she?!
This takes "whatever" to a brand NEW level!
Did you catch her eyes and hand movement?
Cute isn't she?!
Saturday, July 7
Bakerzin
When Hubby and I was at Square 2 on Friday evening to collect my lens, after dinner, we walked around and we saw some chocolates on display.
Check out these eye candies!!!
All by Bakerzin!! So pretty and so yummy looking right? There's a few more, but all looks brown so I only took a picture of those in colours.
Blame my love for chocolates, could not resist, so in the end, Hubby and I bought 2 slices before we went home.
Pretty right?!
Just by looking, I'm falling in love with it! I really truly like the design of "Coeur Noir" but when it comes to taste wise, "Desire" tastes better. The glossy heart and the 2 roses really melts my heart!
=( A pity when we were traveling home, 1 of the rose toppled off and the other slice just slid off the base that's why it ended up looking like that. It was supposed to be the brown roses surrounding the single white rose! So sad when I saw the cake!
But, hubby and I truly enjoy the cakes.. It's really good!
Darling, our anniversary, we get a cake from Bakerzin? =)
Come to think of it, actually "Coeur Noir" looks very nice, even good enough to be a wedding cake!
I really truly like it!!
On a completely different note, we went to Max & Lyn's little darling full month party earlier. Met up with quite a few of our church friends and the little darling is so well behaved!
Throughout the whole thing, he din make much noise at all! He slept through almost everything and he allowed the various aunties, uncles to play and carry him the whole night! So adorable.
The other cutie pie, Channie was there too. She has indeed grown so much! Her mommy tied 2 little pony tails for her and she's really looking cute! Learning how to talk now so she kept making noise, but have no idea what she's talking about at all! The little adorable thing. =) Hubby asked are girls all so talkative? Come to think of it, I should think so, else, why would woman use more words per day as compared to men right? =P
The only thing is, she's quite shy, and won't allow anyone else besides the parents to carry her, which is the only pity. She's sooo cute!!!!
I wanna carry her la!
Check out these eye candies!!!
All by Bakerzin!! So pretty and so yummy looking right? There's a few more, but all looks brown so I only took a picture of those in colours.Blame my love for chocolates, could not resist, so in the end, Hubby and I bought 2 slices before we went home.
Pretty right?!Just by looking, I'm falling in love with it! I really truly like the design of "Coeur Noir" but when it comes to taste wise, "Desire" tastes better. The glossy heart and the 2 roses really melts my heart!
=( A pity when we were traveling home, 1 of the rose toppled off and the other slice just slid off the base that's why it ended up looking like that. It was supposed to be the brown roses surrounding the single white rose! So sad when I saw the cake!
But, hubby and I truly enjoy the cakes.. It's really good!
Darling, our anniversary, we get a cake from Bakerzin? =)
Come to think of it, actually "Coeur Noir" looks very nice, even good enough to be a wedding cake!
I really truly like it!!
On a completely different note, we went to Max & Lyn's little darling full month party earlier. Met up with quite a few of our church friends and the little darling is so well behaved!
Throughout the whole thing, he din make much noise at all! He slept through almost everything and he allowed the various aunties, uncles to play and carry him the whole night! So adorable.
The other cutie pie, Channie was there too. She has indeed grown so much! Her mommy tied 2 little pony tails for her and she's really looking cute! Learning how to talk now so she kept making noise, but have no idea what she's talking about at all! The little adorable thing. =) Hubby asked are girls all so talkative? Come to think of it, I should think so, else, why would woman use more words per day as compared to men right? =P
The only thing is, she's quite shy, and won't allow anyone else besides the parents to carry her, which is the only pity. She's sooo cute!!!!
I wanna carry her la!
Friday, July 6
Chocolatessss....
When Hubby and I were at J8 to catch Transformers, I saw a Japanese Chocolate fair... and knowing me, Of course, I won't give it a miss right?!I bought only 3 boxes of chocolates and it's $15!!! 
Expensive hor! But, we've never tried it before, so this time of buying is still considered ok for us right?
The cute thing is, we buy $15 and we get a "Winnie the Pooh" coin bank free. =/ Not much use for us, but since give us, then take lor.
Gosh, the chocolates is worth EVERY single dollar! Really. It's very very nice! Never regretted spending the amount on it.
All all the boxes comes in individual packaging, so there's no rush to finish all off. Of all the boxes, we like the Couque D'asses best!
There's a thin crust of biscuit covering melted chocolates inside. And when bitten into it, the whole thing literally melts in the mouth!
One of the best chocolates I've ever tasted! Will definitely buy some more next time!
Expensive hor! But, we've never tried it before, so this time of buying is still considered ok for us right?The cute thing is, we buy $15 and we get a "Winnie the Pooh" coin bank free. =/ Not much use for us, but since give us, then take lor.
Gosh, the chocolates is worth EVERY single dollar! Really. It's very very nice! Never regretted spending the amount on it.
All all the boxes comes in individual packaging, so there's no rush to finish all off. Of all the boxes, we like the Couque D'asses best!
There's a thin crust of biscuit covering melted chocolates inside. And when bitten into it, the whole thing literally melts in the mouth!
One of the best chocolates I've ever tasted! Will definitely buy some more next time!
Thursday, July 5
Movies galore
We've been watching so many movies in the past 1 month. Or rather ever since I've finished my exams, we immediately proceed to watch Musical and movies.
Kind of lost count actually, but I know we've watched Shrek3, Spiderman 3, Pirates of the Caribbean 3, Fantastic 4 - Rise of the Silver Surfer. And the most recent, Transformers! Not to mention "Phantom of the Opera". All these. we watched in the time span of less than 2 months! It's almost once a week that we go to the movies!
I've already booked tickets to Harry Potter 5 - Order of the Phoenix last week and just a few minutes ago, tickets to Die Hard 4. =)
I think Transformers is 1 of the best action movies that I've ever watched for the whole of this year! It's really cool those bots can turn themselves into nice cool cars and go all out to protect the human race.
We bought this "Transformer combo" and it comes with the popcorn and drink. Then with the tickets to Transformers at $9 instead of the usual $10. The combo also comes with 2 cards that can be fitted into 2 mini bots. I thought hubby was pretty excited over it but I was wrong, cause since the movie on Monday, the pack of cards is still lying on the table, unopened, untouched. =(
Next week, it's really gonna be Movies week.
Tues, we're going to catch Die Hard (which I heard is another die-die-must-watch-movie) and on Thursday, HARRY POTTER!!!!
ohhhhhhhhhh........ I can't wait!!!
Kind of lost count actually, but I know we've watched Shrek3, Spiderman 3, Pirates of the Caribbean 3, Fantastic 4 - Rise of the Silver Surfer. And the most recent, Transformers! Not to mention "Phantom of the Opera". All these. we watched in the time span of less than 2 months! It's almost once a week that we go to the movies!
I've already booked tickets to Harry Potter 5 - Order of the Phoenix last week and just a few minutes ago, tickets to Die Hard 4. =)
I think Transformers is 1 of the best action movies that I've ever watched for the whole of this year! It's really cool those bots can turn themselves into nice cool cars and go all out to protect the human race.
We bought this "Transformer combo" and it comes with the popcorn and drink. Then with the tickets to Transformers at $9 instead of the usual $10. The combo also comes with 2 cards that can be fitted into 2 mini bots. I thought hubby was pretty excited over it but I was wrong, cause since the movie on Monday, the pack of cards is still lying on the table, unopened, untouched. =(
Next week, it's really gonna be Movies week.
Tues, we're going to catch Die Hard (which I heard is another die-die-must-watch-movie) and on Thursday, HARRY POTTER!!!!
ohhhhhhhhhh........ I can't wait!!!
Sunday, July 1
Kids are soooooo cute!!!
I "khop" this from someone else's blog...
But my goodness!!! The girl is soooooooooooo cute!!! I wanna steal her!
Isn't she adorable? And I love the "ohhhhhhh" at the end!
Hubby and I have watched this clip for at least 10 times and I can already memorize what what the cutie pie said, Word-for-Word.
Gosh... I wanna STEAL her!!!
But my goodness!!! The girl is soooooooooooo cute!!! I wanna steal her!
Isn't she adorable? And I love the "ohhhhhhh" at the end!
Hubby and I have watched this clip for at least 10 times and I can already memorize what what the cutie pie said, Word-for-Word.
Gosh... I wanna STEAL her!!!
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