After 2 nights of ignoring each other, we finally made peace.
I was just thinking back to the days when we were just dating, cold war and arguments happen and after a while it will be alright. But when there were moments where it's really bad, break up was an option open to us.
But after this incident, I realized something, there are bound to be more of such things, little little things tat will make each of us upset and irritated. But yet, splitting up is NO longer an option opened to us.
I have already given up that option to end it all when I said my vows...
Now, all the things that caused us to be upset with each other, if we don't want our marriage to break down, the only possible way wld be to forgive and to move on. To say it is so easy, but to really really practice it is not so simple.
I know that, I also know that when hubby tries to make peace, I should not be so stubborn and hold out and stay pissed off. But saying and doing is always 2 different story.
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