First time in 4 years

I guess, I must give my PILs credit and thus this deserves jotting down.

Since our marriage 4 years ago, countless people have asked when gng to produce some offspring(s). My mom being the no. 1 person. She's been bugging me no end.

Relatives, friends and some colleagues too... but my PIL's have never asked about when we are gng to start producing them some grandchildren.

Today, being the 59th Bday of FIL, he during his traditional cake cutting and wish wishing session had 3 wishes.

First: All at home to be healthy. (I think this is the general wish of every parent.)
Second: That he will still have his PT job. (He's so much happier since he found this PT job)
Third: Where possible, to have an extra someone this day next year. (Of course, one can take it that he meant my YBIL to bring home a wife... only thing is, when he wished for this, he was looking directly at us, or rather me... and MIL was standing right beside me and said "carry grandchild")

I'm not dense, I catch that-very-direct-hint-targeted-at-me-very-clearly.

I would love to say OBIL can go first... but his wife still has another year of studies to go and I guess, they still need to do the traditional wedding ceremony... so, that 'extra someone' most likely got to come from us.

Oh well... Be it have or don't have, it got to come from my Big Boss up there la. All I can say is, once I've cleared my studies, I'm open for trials and errors. But not before I clear my studies.

And just for the fun of jotting down memories, just 2 days ago, a close church friend early early in the morning msn me and said that she dreamt of me sharing my good news with her and that I was very excited and happy.

We shall see if this dream of hers do come true.

And oh. For the record, in case u, my dear friends are wondering if I am stressed out abt PIL's hint, I am NOT at all stressed nor worried.

Firstly, this is the 1st time they mentioned about this topic.. hmm.. the only other time was FIL asked if we are thinking of having kids... but he din openly wished for it. So I guess, not counted. But today was the first time he and MIL said so.

Secondly, if we were not studying, I guess we would have been trying.

Thirdly, my motto is, Have, will have. No have, no have. No use thinking too much anyway.

Oh well, as long, as this qn is not asked too often, I'm Ok.

So conclusion?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, FIL!!!! =)