I'm feeling so bless and blissful and soooo on cloud 9!
Hubby in his previous post was saying that he has a 3 million dollar dream. Everybody has dreams and this is 1 of hubby's. I'm feeling the way I did not coz he has this dream. But more like what he said towards the end of the entry.
"Hahahaha. Though she scold me, she is still my Darling. :)" This is the part that got me so happy and feeling soooo good!
Hahaha.. I really do have a wonderful husband, though at times, I know that I've taken him for granted, bullied him and really make him at the 3rd 'ring' of marriage. But being the way he is, he is quick to forgive me, and still love me just the same. Accepting my many many faults and tempers (which sometimes are just uncalled for!) and he patiently wait for me to cool down and always (well, almost) the first person to extend the wings of peace.
I'm soooo glad and happy that I am bless with such a guy. Such a treasure!
And since I have spoken so much... we talk abt the 3 million dollar dream. Aey! I am not materialistic ok, but we need $ to eat, to live and to raise our kiddies right? So since hubby want to earn 3 million for us. I'm not complaining! hahaha
Hm.... Firstly.. if really have tat kinda $.... a portion of it got to go back to God. He bless us with this amt and it's only right that we got to help the others who are mre in need.
Then... parents.
Of course, another portion must must must go into savings and maybe some gurateened and safe investments.
I would like to shift plc. Not to anywhere landed or condo. I still like Bishan area. Just tat, I would prefer a higher, non corridor unit as compared to now. And if we do get another flat, we can actually make a ONE TIME PAYMENT for the unit!! How cool is that?!! No housing loans for the next 20, 30 years!! Which by the way, our current housing loan is a freaking 35 years!!!!!!!!
Kiddies... hm... by then, I think we can afford at least 4 =) And I would like to send them for enrichnment classes like ballet, piano, tek kwando or art. Basically, anything that they are interested and shows a talent for lor.
I would want to continue to work maybe as part time. So I can spend more time with my children and yet still maintaining links with the market so that I won't become too 'Yellow' a.k.a 黄脸婆。hahaha.. also coz if I continue to work, I don't have to rely 100% on hubby to give me $ though I know that he can very well afford it lor. I just want to still have that tiny bit of financial freedom for myself lor. Modern woman thinking ma. Anyway, it's v v sian to ask hubby for every penny right? Recall the days when we were in school especially in Secondary schools? Somehow the list of needs and wants just gets longer and longer as we grow and everytime we want dough, the easiest & legal way (up to age 14 anyway) was to take from parents, but I recall my mom's face too lor. haha... so best is still to have some spare dough that I can call my own. Imagine I asking hubby like a couple of hundreds a month for my Fancl? Facial? Shopping? -_-"
I read in a book that, a wife should always try to make herself attractive to her hubby else (hence, the NEED for the FanclS, facialS, shoppingS etc), it's very easy for the man to stray. After all, the streets are full of sweet, young things which as I age over the years, I cannot compare to them. Only thing is then got to build such a solid and strong re-ship with hubby that he don't even want to think abt breaking this bond between us!
I like this dream! Hubby, I really do. Please go n do something about it! hahahaha
I Love You, Darling!!
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